Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Mount Victoria B&B in Eureka Springs

This post has moved to my blog! Check out this Mount Victoria B&B in Eureka Springs Review over at its new home at And Blue Sky! :)

10 Things on Tuesday (On Wednesday)- Volume 23

1. Okay, the obvious update first - My mom has been in the nursing home for one week now, and is already doing way better! When she first moved there from the hospital, she couldn't even sit up on her own. Yesterday, I watched her walk a pretty impressive distance down the hallways before she got tired. Her physical therapist said it was about three times farther than she went yesterday; even he was impressed! She will most likely be there a few more weeks, but it's really nice (and relieving) to see her make progress. 

2. I have to admit that I don't get the obsession with buying the new iPhone the second it comes out. If a phone costs over $100, it had better make me coffee every morning or last at least 10 years.

That said, I got a new phone! I've been needing to replace mine for months, ever since I dropped it in the bath tub. (Oops.) It mostly still functioned after drying it out overnight, but the camera was never quite as sharp, I could only make calls on speaker, and random little things were starting to get funky. Luckily, Target had my exact phone on sale for $50, with a promotion where it came with a free $15 gift card. I had a $25 Target GC that I won in a giveaway, so basically I only paid 10 "real" dollars for my phone. YAY.

3. I won a $75 gift card to Stitch Fix, and I'm super excited to see what they send me, but also a little nervous that I might not like any of it! (Or what if I fall in love with ALL of it!?) For those of you who have tried it, how much stuff did you love vs. hate?

4. Not a great pic, but I got this clothing rack for like $15 and it's basically my new favorite thing! I'm using it for all of my sewing projects in progress. I've noticed that when they're all stuffed in bags and boxes I never work on them, so having them out where I can see them has been good motivation! Hoping to have a sewing marathon one day this week.

5. I'm not generally much of a TV person, but I finally watched the first several episodes of How To Get Away with Murder this weekend and I'm digging it. Love that it has Dean Thomas and Paris from Gilmore Girls! Are there any new fall TV shows I need to check out? 

6. My inner political nerd is super excited that there are less than 2 weeks until midterm elections! 

7. Know what's awesome? This stuff. I got an email the other day that Bath & Body Works was having a sale on the mason jar candles - $5 instead of $12.50. I tried to talk myself out of driving over (the closest one is half an hour away), but then I remembered that I had coupons that they'd sent me: one for 20% off and one for a free body care item with $10 purchase. If you do the math, it means that I got everything in this pic for $12.50. SCORE. Plus they gave me a coupon for a free item of choice up to $13 on my next trip, so it's kind of like I spent $0? Calling this one an epic victory.

8. I'm in that awkward phase where I checked out an ebook online from my library, totally forgot about it until 3 days before it was due, and then discovered that it was over 700 pages once I started reading. And of course there's a waiting list for it, so it won't let me renew. If I just keep it open on my laptop, I can keep reading after the due date, but it's kind of annoying. Do I suck it up and try to read the remaining 600-ish pages as quickly as possible, or hop back on the waiting list and totally forget what I've read so far while I wait?

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9. I haven't posted any of my thrift store finds in ages, but I had a pretty good haul this month, including this funky, colorful apron and another with a more classic design. Now I feel the need to bake stuff! (Ignore that my nails are two different colors here. Life is hard to keep up with.)

10. Still haven't made it out to any hiking trails yet this fall. I know I'll kick myself later if I don't take advantage of the perfect outdoorsy weather now, but life has been too crazy. Maybe later this week? Cross your fingers for me!

My Tuesday post on Wednesday is better than never, right? I hope?

How is your week going?

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Open Enrollment Time is Coming!

Ah, insurance. For me it's one of those things that I know is important, but that I get a little overwhelmed diving into. I've learned from experience how important it is to plan ahead for the expenses that come with illness or injury, though - my credit score is still a mess from when I missed a lot of work back in 2009 due to health issues and quickly fell behind on bills as a result. Like a lot of people in the millennial age group, I don't have a lot of money set aside for an emergency. A recent study by Aflac found that 35% of millennials have less than $500 set aside for unexpected medical expenses. (You can read some of the other stats in their post about being One Emergency Away From Financial Disaster - It's pretty interesting!) If you don't have paid sick days available, missing a week of work plus medical expenses can add up super quickly!

As I mentioned in yesterday's post, my mom has been in the hospital this week. It's a little odd to be writing a post about preparing for unexpected medical costs when I'm kind of living it at the same time.  Speaking from current experience I can definitely say that dealing with the illness of yourself or a family member is scary and stressful enough without worrying about the financial side of things at the same time.

Looking forward to hanging out with my mom back at her house again, instead of the hospital/nursing home!

The 2nd round of open enrollment begins November 15th, so now is a good time to do some research on your benefit options! Even if you are already insured, you might want to consider a supplemental plan like those offered by Aflac. They offer plans that can help out with the expenses that can come with an accident or illness, such as child care or the bills that continue to show up even when you're unable to work. Nearly half of millennials surveyed said that they spent 30 minutes or less selecting their benefits last year. I spend way more time than that deciding which boots to buy for fall! A little extra time spent checking out your benefit options now to prepare for the open enrollment period could make life a lot easier if something unexpected does happen. There's no magical plan that's a perfect fit for everyone. Do your future self a favor and take the time to educate yourself about your options so that you're sure you're making the right choices for your life.  (I feel like I should end this post with some kind of "Knowledge is power!" graphic, or one of those "The more you know!" stars. I'll resist that urge, though.)

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls Collective and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Overdue Update

Yeah, I've been missing for like two weeks. Sorry about that.

You may have seen on my blog's Facebook page that my mom is in the hospital. She was sick for several days last week and I completely exhausted myself (and totally screwed up my back) taking care of her. Nothing makes you appreciate things like a hot meal and a shower like realizing you haven't had either in three days. I finally convinced her to go to the hospital on Thursday, probably mostly because I pretty much broke down crying from exhaustion while trying to get her to eat breakfast. The ambulance came and picked her up, I texted my sister the info about the hospital she was going to, and then immediately ran to throw up from the stress, which went on for about the next 24 hours. (Have I ever mentioned that my body likes to totally shut down under stress? The entire day of vomiting thing is sadly pretty familiar.)

Turns out that there were a lot of factors at play. Mom's doctor had put her on a new medication and she had a bad reaction to it. (The first day she took it she slept for almost an entire day, which totally freaked me out, but once it wore off she was fine. I guess that taking it again put her body over the edge?) She also had some kind of infection, as well as some digestive issues going on. She's not young and she's small, so it all ganged up on her pretty quickly.

She's been in the hospital since Thurs, and three of my sisters have been keeping her company (two pretty much full time, one for a while yesterday.) I am still feeling pretty gross, but did make it over once to check in on her the day that the others couldn't be there. I was still pretty much too dizzy to drive, but I would have felt awful if she'd been there with no visitors all day.

She's getting a little bit of strength back, but it's going to be a while before she's back to being able to take care of herself, so within the next few days she's going to move to a nursing home for about a month. I'm not a fan of that idea, but she needs a lot of care right now, so it's the best option. Luckily there was a spot open at the place just 2 miles from where I live, so getting over there to spend time will be pretty easy.

It's been rough, you guys. Worrying about someone you love is kind of the worst. I think that we're all especially freaked out because when our dad went to the hospital ten years ago, he never came back. Even though that was a totally different situation (he had a pretty major stroke), it's hard not to feel the echos of those emotions, to keep catching the little similarities. It's scary. And I think it makes us all react differently than if we'd not had that previous experience.

I had a kinda sucky reminder of just what stress does to my brain yesterday. (I have some anxiety issues, they blow.) While my sister was here doing some laundry, I ran out to the store to pick up some groceries and household essential stuff. Pulled up to Walmart and decided that I'd get gas first, since as usual my low fuel light had been on for like 20 miles. Of course, as soon as I finished putting gas in and went to get back in the car, I realized that I didn't have my keys. They were inside the (locked) car, on top of my purse. Cell phone? Also in the car. Gas station's phone couldn't make outgoing calls, so I went into Walmart, where the service desk told me that their phone couldn't either, but that the one back in electronics could. Some very kind people standing nearby offered to let me use their cell phone. (Love you, random people!) Of course, I couldn't remember part of my sister's cell number. I knew the last 4 digits, but the first 3 were totally escaping me. Instead I called the house phone, but no answer, and the lovely phone loaning people were ready to leave. I finally figured out that I could call the hospital where my other sister was (the desk had a phone book, yay!) and have her call the sister at my house to tell her where my spare key was. WHEW.

Of course, I forgot that I had MOVED the key a few weeks ago, so despite my very precise directions, she couldn't find it. Since she couldn't call me (no phone!), she ended up calling the gas station (where she knew I was waiting for her to bring the key), who came on the intercom and asked the person at pump 16 to come answer a call. We decided she would come and get me, drive me home, and then take me back to my car. The whole crazy thing took over 2 hours from the time I got locked out of the car to when I was able to get back in, and then I still had the shopping to do! I think it's best summed up by what I said to my sister as she pulled up to the gas station to pick me up- "My week is going REALLY WELL! How about yours?"

So that's what's up here lately. I've been trying to balance taking care of everything at mom's house with not letting myself get so stressed that I end up in the hospital, too. (Been there, done that. Twice.) It's exhausting. I'm just now getting around to trying to catch up on work, too. (Apologies if the sponsored posts outweigh the more personal ones for a bit, I've fallen behind and don't want to let the lovely people that help me afford cat food down.)

A lot of people in my life (and strangers) have been really awesome and supportive, which is especially wonderful since there are a few who (not unexpectedly) have been less than kind. But we're all human, and I think we're all trying to do the best that we can.

Thursday, October 02, 2014

Taking An Afternoon Break! #mymikesmoment

“I participated in an Influencer Activation Program on behalf of Mom Central Consulting for mike’s hard lemonade. I received a Circle K gift card to facilitate this review and a promotional item to thank me for participating.”

You would think that with summer ending and almost a month ahead before we start getting into the holiday season, early fall would mean a chance to kick back and relax, right? HA! I don't know about you guys, but for me things have been totally crazy around here lately. I always seem to be on the go, and usually feel like I'm about a week behind on just about everything. 

You're going to have to mentally pencil in the storm clouds, since this photo just makes the sky look glowy.

Today, after a super long and stressful morning I was in serious need of an afternoon break. It was the perfect time to try out the special edition mike's hard pink lemonade that I'd been asked to tell you guys about, and let me tell you... random middle of the day break to sip a drink and watch a thunderstorm roll in? Pretty much the best way to de-stress after a crazy morning of working at home! It was light and crisp and sweet without being too sweet, and just the right amount of alcoholyness (totally a word) to let me relax and de-stress a bit before diving back into work. It's so easy to get caught up in the "OMG, I need to accomplish all of these things!" frenzy that I often forget that actually stopping and taking a little break to take care of myself actually makes me way more productive in the long run! 

Especially cool is that October is breast cancer awareness month, and this limited edition version is doing its part to raise awareness and fund research - they've donated over $1 million to breast cancer research so far! Gotta love a drink that gives back! (I also learned that it's made with real lemons, so... this counts as a serving of fruit, right? ...right?) The limited edition hard pink lemonade is only available around this time each year, so now's the time to grab a 6-pack unless you want to be stuck waiting until next fall!

Have any of you tried these yet? Any other tips for refreshing breaks from the daily craziness?